Mom continues to improve! The nurse said she didn't sleep well last nite, but she had a big morning and was settled in for a nap when I left at 12:30. We can't get back in until 4:30 now, so hopefully she sleeps most of that time.

I found her this morning with the bed shaped into a recliner, how cool! She sat up all morning! She talks when she wants to. She loves to read her cards. She feeds herself. She ate 3 pieces of bread dipped into gravy for lunch. She said she was wolfing it down, and she was! She also ate applesauce and jello and drank applejuice, then decided she probably should stop.

Sara and Anita visited while Randy and Kevin went to the annual hamfest at the Coliseum. Uncle Bob and Anthony stopped in after their jaunt at the hamfest. Ryan and family should be arriving any time to spend the rest of the afternoon.

I noticed mom had doodled last evening on a note pad. She had done some mathematical equations and written Ryan's name a lot. Think she was missing her baby.

Her doctor's inform us she is doing really well. She's getting good care.

Rex is struggling. He's home more than he is at the hospital. If you are in the area, stop in at the apartment. He needs encouragement. We'll share more details next week after his further testing.

Keep lifting all our names to our Lord. I feel VERY equipped by my Lord right now. Praise You, Father.

Ronna

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Huge Day

Mom made major leaps forward this afternoon/evening. She's been awake basically since 3. She ate her own "dinner" using spoons and straws and shovelled it in about as fast as she could. Then she started reading her cards, aloud, over and over and over. Then she started printing and writing. One of her cards was from the new senior group at their Ft. Wayne church called Oasis. Rex knew what the acronym of the letters represented and mom wrote it out on the card! Shift change is 7-8, so we left and the nurse told me when I returned that mom doodled on the papers the whole time we were gone. She had the TV on too. Meds are being taken away that she no longer needs. She's just doing great.

The news on Rex unfortunately is not good. We got some very disturbing info from the oncologist today. He is having 2 more tests next week, then the final decision on treatment will be made on Friday. Mom does not know and please do not discuss this with her. She would not be able to understand and process this right now. We will inform you as we can. Please pray for Rex, as he is handling a lot on his own right now. I am very very proud of him. Plans are being discussed as to how to handle both of their situations simultaneously. PLEASE PRAY FOR OUR FAMILY AS WE MAKE THESE DECISIONS.

Mom named this blog several weeks ago. I keep hanging on to the words. God Will Make A Way.

Big Change

Ronna has informed me that Mom has made a big leap in recovery today. Earlier when Ronna and I talked on the phone, she informed me that mom was singing along with some visitors. Also, she had sat on the edge of her bed for 3 minutes with the physical therapist.

Ronna just texted me that Mom is feeding herself!

This is really tough being at home. I can't wait to get there tomorrow afternoon.

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Awesome end to the day

Mom pretty much snoozed the day away. She is on no pain medication, altho she could have it if she needed it. After Rex left at 6:30ish, I sang some hymns to mom. Then left at 7 for shift change and ran into Dennis & Theresa. They had to wait an hour since it was shift change, so we just chatted. I had called one of my girlfriends to come spend 8-9 with me in mom's room, as it gets kinda lonely in there alone with mom sleeping.

Well, she had gotten a bath and changed during the shift change and she was pretty alert. She recognized Dennis & Theresa, they stayed just a short time, and then Roberta and I settled in for our 45 minutes. We were just gabbing across the bed as girlfriends do and mom was looking back and forth at us getting totally caught up in the conversation. Roberta noticed mom had her nails polished and she started asking her if she put a clear top coat on them and mom shook her head yes. Then she pulled both her arms up and spread out her fingers so Roberta could see all 10! I about died!!!! That's the most response we had from her all day. She was squeezing our hands to indicate she wanted water. Once she put her arm around my waist and patted me.

I bought a cross necklace in the hospital gift shop yesterday and I was telling mom it will always be a reminder to me of what God did for her at this time. As I bent over to kiss her goodnite, she grabbed the cross and just held on to it and pushed it back and forth on the chain. I asked her if she wanted one and she nodded yes. Tomorrow's purchase!

Nurses say a couple more days for the steroids to lessen the swelling and we'll begin seeing improvement.

Big day tomorrow for Rex & I. We both have appointments. Randy will be with us.

Thursday afternoon status

Mom is much less responsive verbally today but that is because her brain is swollen, which is normal. She is on a steroid to bring that down. Just as Ryan said earlier, her left side is not responding as well as her right, but the doctor said that it is not a stroke. He told us at the first appointment to expect weakness on one side and that it would be remediated with therapy. She does move her left arm and hand. I haven't seen a lot of movement with her left leg yet today.

She sleeps most of the time, but when she opens an eye, we talk to her and she recognizes us. We smile and tell her she is doing well, Rex is doing good, and she is OK. She squeezes our hands. Randy thought up asking her to squeeze if she wanted a drink or some sherbet and both times I asked, she squeezed! And she drank and ate!

We're only going in 1 or 2 at a time and really at this point encouraging no visitors unless you just want to pop in for a bit. Let her rest.

It's hard to wait. We are all hanging on to each other. Randy/Anita were here this morning until 4:30 when we get kicked out for 2 hours. Rex was there most of that time. We're both at our homes resting right now.

I was thankful to be there when Dr. Canavati stopped in this morning. He was very encouraging.

I am reading Psalms to mom, it's hard. I cry. I want to sing to her too, but I haven't been able to accomplish pulling myself together enough to do that yet.

Our email

Here's our email addresses. They are really hard.

Ronna's email
ronna@juno.com

Ryan's email
Ryan@TheRitenours.com

Best to email me as Ronna doesn't have much time to be at a computer right now. I know it all so feel free to email me. I check it and this blog often. I hate cell phones so that's why I'm not giving out our numbers. Ronna's is going off all the time just from immediate family.

Ryan

update

CT scan this morning was good. She has developed a slight deficit on one side. Dr. says it will come back with therapy.

Address for cards, flowers, etc.

Lutheran Hospital
7950 W Jefferson Blvd
MSIC Room 3520
Fort Wayne, IN 46804

Home address:
6218 Ruby Circle West
FT. Wayne 46804

Mom has some deficit on one side, however I do not believe that it is a problem. I saw her grab both bars and pull herself up yesterday. Therapy will usually take care of it if it's a problem.

Ronna is there waiting to see the Dr.

update

When I left mom at 7:00 p.m., she was doing great. She is still very groggy but understands what is going on and knows everyone. She wants to take her 'hat' off and sit up. I had to tell her many times to stop, however she was not nearly as bad as my wife was with grabbing and playing with tubes and tape and bandages.

We saw the surgeon again and he didn't think she had any deficits. Obviously there can be after-effects but hopefully there will be none.

Randy, Ronna, and Rex will be back at it Thursday. I have to work 2 days and will likely go back Sat. afternoon.

Ronna will have to post the address to send cards to the hospital since I'm not there for a few days.

Just saw mom!

Just went in and saw, and TALKED TO mom! She knew who I was instantly. I made her tell me.

Dr. came in a told us she seems to be doing very good. She counted his fingers and talked with him. At this point she keeps falling asleep when we talk to her but she just woke up.

She looks normal other than a bandaged head. The room is large and COLD!

Obviously it is too early to know when she would be moved to a regular room.

Visiting hours are from 9-9, except for the hours of 2:30-4:30 and 7-8. No more than 2 people at a time. 3520.

Mom's in ICU

Mom is in ICU room 3520.

Done

Surgery was over at noon. Dr. said he got out at least 90% of the tumor. It was a very large tumor that had been growing for many years. It had a lot of involvement with arteries and he worked 2 hours with a microscope to remove as much as he could without causing a stroke. 2 small spots remain and she will be monitored for any regrowth. If that would occur, they could use the gamma-knife for removal.

She is still asleep and so we don't know if there are any effects from the removal of the tumor. She is being moved to ICU, which is normal after brain surgery.

More when we know more.

Mom has went to surgery

Mom just went to surgery at 7:00, or actually, went to surgery prep where they will shave her head slightly. 10 people are here at the moment in the waiting area. More postings when I hear something.

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Plans for Wednesday

This will be a long day, no doubt. I will be taking Mom (and Rex if he is ready at that time) to the hospital at 5:30 a.m. At this point I will likely be the one going in with her to surgery prep. It doesn't seem to bother me to do so after doing it a few times before. I know what to expect.

Once she is out of surgery and we can get to a computer, we will post something. It could take awhile before a post shows up though.

We will also try to post an address to send cards to but you can always send it to their home and it will get to her. We'll have quite an 'audience' of all immediate family that day so honestly, if you want to visit, wait a day for her to get settled and ready to receive visitors.

Mom's surgery is Wednesday, November 12

Mom's surgery is this coming Wednesday at 7:30am at Lutheran Hospital. She needs to be there at 5:30am.

Rex continues to do well after his surgery yesterday.

Not much else to say, I'm still trying to take all this in. We all need prayer.

Ronna

Rex's surgery UPDATE

Tuesday: Rex has a soft tissue mass, not a hernia. It will be removed tomorrow (Wednesday) at noon as an outpatient surgery at Lutheran and be sent to the lab for testing.

Wednesday: The surgery went very smoothly. He's home resting now. The surgeon did indicate the mass looked very suspicious. So we have an appointment with his oncologist next Friday, 14th.

We are very overwhelmed right now.

Appointments

Rex has an inguinal hernia. He has an appointment tomorrow (Tuesday) at 11am with a general surgeon. Will update tomorrow evening with the plan of action.

Mom has called the neurosurgeon's office to get her surgery date set. The scheduler was not in the office today, so she expects a return call tomorrow.